Learn how to stay calm, present & steady, as intimacy starts to build
(without force, tricks, or pressure.)
A simple, private audio-based process (3 Hrs total)
Designed for men who struggle with arousal regulation, tension & anxiety during intimacy, or lasting longer than they currently do.
Immediate access · Audio-based · Private · $7
Most men were never taught how intimacy actually works inside the body.
Instead, they’re given “tips” that backfire - quick fixes that make you tense, anxious, and overthinking.
Over time, this creates a cycle you may recognize:
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Overthinking instead of feeling
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Trying to control outcomes instead of trusting the body
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Losing confidence because the experience feels inconsistent
Many men quietly assume something is “wrong” with them.
In reality, nothing is broken...
What’s missing is a step-by-step way to work with your body & mind - so you can stay calm, connected, and enjoy intimacy without stress or pressure.
Real confidence
isn’t forced.
It’s built.
(Confidence emerges when your nervous system feels safe.)
Control becomes available when your internal capacity is strong enough to hold sensation without urgency -
THE CODE was created to guide you
through this process in a clear, felt, and practical way.
This is not a motivational talk or surface-level mindset work.
It’s a trainable internal process you can return to again and again.
The 3 Parts of THE CODE...
Part One: The Foundation of Intimate Capacity
Learn to calm your nervous system and feel steady in your body
You’ll discover how to:
- Use mindset, breath, and attention to support your body -
- Stay present and relaxed instead of tense or anxious -
- Build the groundwork for real confidence -
This sets the conditions for confidence to arise naturally, rather than being forced.
TAKE ME THERE!
Part Two: Building Internal Strength & Regulation
Train your internal system to handle sensation and arousal -
You'll learn how to:
- Reduce urgency and over-excitement
- Stay present during intimacy
- Build the internal support system that makes intimacy easier
This is where many men experience a noticeable shift in how their body responds - not through control, but through internal strength.
Part Three: Integration - Bringing It Into Real Life
Turn your practice into real results during intimacy -
The final part focuses on integration.
You’ll be guided through audio experiences designed to help you:
- Stay embodied, not performative -
- Experience relaxed, connected intimacy - solo or partnered -
- Keep calm and confident under pressure -
This part helps translate internal training into lived experience, without overthinking or pressure.
From a man using THE CODE to build calm, embodied confidence during intimacy...
"Thank you Nitya for this course! It is just what I was looking for and the training and practices are amazing. There is really no program that I have seen that makes it so easy practical and doable. It is enjoyable to listen to as well, & I love the guided practices!"
If you’re tired of trying to “fix” yourself
and want a calm, practical way to work with your body instead-
THE CODE is available now.
Private. Audio-based. Immediate access.
About your guide...
I’m Nitya.
I’ve spent over a decade supporting men to develop embodied confidence, presence, and intimacy through mindset, somatic training, breathwork, nervous system regulation, and internal cultivation practices.
My work bridges:
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modern embodiment science
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ancient internal training systems
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and practical, grounded application for real life -
THE CODE was created as a concise, complete framework that men can apply privately and at their own pace.
Nitya Mahlynn
Cert. Somatic Intimacy Coach/Cert. Life Coach
INTRODUCING...
THE CODE
A 3-Part Audio Framework for Building Intimate Capacity from the Inside Out
Immediate access - simple delivery
Once you join, you’ll receive:
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Instant access to all audio components
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Clear guidance on how to use the framework
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Private listening links you can stream or download
No complicated platform.
No ongoing commitment.
Just the work.
JUST $7 →
Now $7